TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE

" Love is not a feeling but a determined act of will, which always results in determined acts of self giving. Love is the willing, joyful desire to put the welfare of others above our own" - John MacArthur. Some see LOVE as a willful act of generosity, a show of appreciation or rather, a show of mercy. But I think it is far more than all this. It is far greater than just a feeling. It requires much attention and the whole of your beings - your spirit, soul and body. Genuine love does not stop at the sweetness of the appearance but has to do more with the tenderness of a heart determined to serve unconditionally. True love is far greater than giving or any acts of generosity. If it must be defined in terms of giving, then it must be sacrificial in all dimensions. It is longsuffering, kind, sincere, humble, plain and objective rather than being judgemental. It is not easily provoked, it hates to do evil but consent to that which is good.  True love does not rej...

True Love Is Divine... An Insurance Against Hate True Love is not only hard to find, but a harder task to manage. It is divine. Its universality and potency make it an indispensable instrument of peace.  Where true love exists, the weapons of hate are consumed. Though peace is not the absence of war, but the application of the instrumentality of LOVE to incapacitate the agents of war, which commandant is HATE.  Therefore, let us love, not just in the letter, but in the power thereof: for there is power in true love, far beyond human imagination, boundless and eternal.  True love is a cord of infinite affection, existing from eternity past to the present, onto eternity to come. It is the force that binds the centre of humanity in the bond of peace. True love is as aged as The Creator Himself, for GOD is LOVE and LOVE is GOD. Therefore, He that does not love is a hater of the ALMIGHTY GOD, for true love is divine.  True love cannot be purchased with mone...

True Love is not only hard to find, but a harder task to manage. It is divine. Its universality and potency make it an indispensable instrument of peace. Where true love exists, the weapons of hate are consumed. Though peace is not the absence of war, but the application of the instrumentality of LOVE to incapacitate the agents of war, which commandant is HATE. Therefore, let us love, not just in the letter, but in the power thereof: for there is power in true love, far beyond human imagination, boundless and eternal. True love is a cord of infinite affection, existing from eternity past to the present, onto eternity to come. It is the force that binds the centre of humanity in the bond of peace. True love is as aged as The Creator Himself, for GOD is LOVE and LOVE is GOD. Therefore, He that does not love is a hater of theu ALMIGHTY GOD, for true love is divine.  True love cannot be purchased with money, but thrives on the platter of care, and care materializes on the whee...

Love is a divine chemistry that can not be analyzed with the apparatus of lust Depending on the nature of relationship, you have to really define your intention from the very onset. Would you sacrifice your values in the name of ‘love’ and be at the receiving end? Or would you rather be subject to the whims and caprices of ravenous wolves in sheep’s clothing that go about seeking whom to devour?   Be wise! Be cautious! Be responsible! Yes, be responsible for your actions when it comes to relationship. This is because there are misconceptions that often lead astray. What many refer to as love is nothing but lust that is predicated upon mere feelings to satisfy inordinate affection, rather than a ‘soulish’ touch between two that are deeply connected in the spirit of true affection and care. Such was the situation of a friend who was tricked by his own flesh and lustfully dabbled into the domain of marriage. But no sooner had he started than he found out he was ...

Welcome to a world of fulfillment, where true companionship adds true meanings to life. Again I say, welcome! What does Relationship Mean to You? Relationship is a tie, a knot between a duo, for mutual benefits. In our context, it is a connection and an agreement between two persons, especially male and female, to start a new life together in the bond of love. Relationship is about symbiotic responsibilities towards each other, in all dimensions . As free moral agents and social animals, we all want to relate, perhaps for other different purposes than sexual or marital. Some relationships may be for business ends while others are engendered towards career development. Some may even be for mere friendship. Whichever one it is, the fact remains that, relationship explores the power of two, as against the weaknesses and dangers inherent in loneliness. This is the cardinal import of the saying “two (good) heads are better than one”. Thinking of how best to overcome...